Learn how to become aware of your emotions and take control of them in order to deal with an annoying person.
If you feel resentment and anger towards a person you consider annoying, you might be unaware of something you’ve been doing. When you disagree with the way somebody’s acting, it might trigger a hateful response in you and put you in a state of unrest. This state could last for minutes, hours or even days if it’s left to snowball out of control. You might blame the person, because you believe they’re in the wrong. Take a step back and consider how you’ve been reacting to this person. Are you coming to terms with who they are by feeling hatred towards them. Or are you feeding the annoying side of them by dwelling on the situation. If you can approach your relationship from a neutral and non-judgemental standpoint you’ll instantly feel better. By dropping any judgements you have, you’ll be eliminating the need for confrontation. That means you’ll be less likely to act irratically because you have peace of mind. It also means that now you’re dealing with what you have control over. This is a better path for you to take when considering the outcome. Another result of letting go of judgement is that you’ll feel less judged yourself. This means caring a lot less about what people think of you and being a lot happier. So even when it seems impossible not to judge someone for what they’re doing. It’s healthier for you to control how you’re feeling and maintain peace of mind.